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Weibo Watch: A Different Year

2023 became the year of trying to get back to normal life, the year of getting to enjoy traveling again, the year of opening up international exchanges, and the year of grappling with recurring Covid waves and social distrust.

Manya Koetse

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PREMIUM NEWSLETTER | ISSUE #21

 

Dear Reader,

 

As many of you are preparing, celebrating, or recovering, I’ll keep this week’s newsletter shorter than usual. But on New Year’s Eve, I can’t help but reflect on the last year. After a decade of closely following Weibo trends, I’ve found that certain themes stand out more in some years than in others.

There were previous years when the pursuit for social or consumer justice was notably clear, weaving through numerous trending stories. In some years, digital nationalism surged, bolstered by state media amplifying nationalist sentiments among netizens. At other times, Chinese social media users showed increased resistance against official narratives and online censorship. We’ve witnessed years marked by celebrity crackdowns and the rise of the celebrity economy. Additionally, there were periods when the rural-urban divide in China took center stage, with narratives from migrant workers shedding light on the challenges faced by society’s most vulnerable social groups.

While reflecting on a year in China might typically align better with the Chinese New Year rather than the Gregorian calendar, the year 2023 is different. This truly was a special year due to the abrupt end to China’s ‘Zero Covid’ in December of 2022. That year ended with discussions surrounding China’s major policy shift and national Covid-19 wave. Right from the early start, the new year then became the year of trying to get back to normal life, the year of getting to enjoy traveling again, the year of opening up international exchanges, and the year of grappling with recurring Covid waves.

Understanding the full ramifications of the pandemic—be it on our mental health, the implications for children growing up during this period, or shifts in social norms and work culture—will probably take years of research. While debates continue, it’s evident that younger generations, in their formative years, have been significantly impacted. Globally, our shared experiences show both clear similarities and stark differences.

Recently, I’ve noticed in Europe when giving talks or getting interviewed about news events, people seem to completely overlook the timeline of events in post-Covid China. To them, Covid already seems like a distant memory. They forget that it was not until March of 2023 when China resumed issuing all types of visas, until mid August when the ban on Chinese group travels was lifted, or that it wasn’t until early summer when most people in China experienced their second ‘Covid positive.’ And that the big post-pandemic rebound of influenza just happened a few weeks ago.

In this post-Zero Covid year, social trust has emerged as a dominant theme across various trending stories. While (low) trust has always been a pivotal theme in modern-day China, specific periods often reveal discernible trends related to this, such as heightened distrust in official media, local governments, medical institutions, or certain industries. This year, social trust appears fragile in multiple dimensions, as the Covid years have deeply influenced trust dynamics at local, regional, and national levels.

This was evident in the death of the student Hu Xinyu, when people thought details surrounding his disappearance were purposely being hidden or not revealed to the public. It was visible in the anger over Cathay Pacific mocking Chinese, non-English speaking passengers, which became one of the biggest marketing disasters of the year together with the BMW ice cream gate. It was visible in the controversy surrounding influencer ‘Lipstick King’ who lashed out against viewers questioning the price of an eyepencil, or in the scandal surrounding comedian Li Haoshi, who made a joke refering to the PLA. So many train incidents also went viral this year, with the high-speed train slapping incident showing that minor misunderstandings or annoyances can quickly escalate into conflicts and confrontations. The thefts at the Midi Music Festival, the Zhongshan hospital controversy, and scrutiny of Red Cross relief efforts in Gansu further illustrate instances where dwindling trust fostered resentment, skepticism, and misinformation.

This is one of the reasons why the story about the rat head in a school canteen meal made such an impact this year. As the distasteful discovery went viral—the rat still had its teeth and ears— the school maintained that it was not, in fact, a rat, but a duck head that was found in the rice. The entire incident led to laughter and online jokes, but behind the hashtags there was a lot of cynicism and anger over how shamelessly this problem was solved by those in charge: they simply turned the rat into a duck.

You can find the related popular buzzphrase, “calling a rat a duck” (指鼠为鸭), in our newly published list of top 25 buzzwords and phrases of 2023, which also reflects on the past China year.

For now, I’m wishing you a very happy and healthy 2024, with renewed optimism, mutual respect, and new foundations of trust to build on.

Best,
Manya

 

A closer look at the top stories

1: Top 25 Buzzwords | Here are 25 Chinese buzzwords and catchphrases, listed by What’s on Weibo, that reflect social trends and changing times in China in 2023. This article also lists the top 10 of the most noteworthy buzzwords curated by the Chinese linguistics magazine Yǎowén Jiáozì (咬文嚼字).

Read here
 

2: A Very PLA Christmas | It is not Santa bringing you peace and joy, it is the People’s Liberation Army (PLA). Chinese state media and other influential social media accounts have been pushing an alternative Christmas narrative this year, which makes it very clear that this ‘Merry Christmas’ is brought by China’s military forces, not by a Western legendary figure.

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3: Red Cross China Keeps Getting Criticized | After the devastating 6.2-magnitude earthquake struck Jishishan (积石山), a county in China’s Gansu Province’s Linxia Hui Autonomous Prefecture, on December 18, Chinese social media platforms were flooded with news related to the disaster. The overnight earthquake killed at least 149 people and left hundreds injured. As rescue efforts were underway, an online list detailing items supposedly procured by the Gansu Red Cross for earthquake relief efforts ignited controversy on Chinese social media. Although the Red Cross has denied all rumors, the incident underscores public skepticism towards the organization.

Read here
 

 

What More to Know

Highlighting 8 hot topics

◼︎ Xi Jinping’s Happy New Year Wish | In a short video message published all over Chinese social media and pushed to the trending lists, Chinese President Xi Jinping wished everyone a happy new year from Beijing on December 31st. (Weibo hashtag: “Wishing Everyone a Happy New Year” #向大家致以新年的祝福#, 9 million views).

◼︎ Air Pollution and Safety Precautions Thwart New Year Activities | Various places across China announced on December 31st that there would be no fireworks at midnight due to heavy air pollution. Among them was Shanghai Disneyland, but also Window of the World, a themepark in Changsha, and Huayi Brothers Movie World in Suzhou. Overall, it seems like this year’s New Years’ activities are much more sober than those of previous years, as various places refrained from organizing any form of large-scale public activities. One reasons cited for the absence of many countdown activities was to prevent overcrowding – the Shanghai New Year’s stampede is still engraved in collective memory – but it is not entirely clear if this is the actual reason. (“Shanghai Disney Cancels New Year Fireworks #上海迪士尼或取消跨年夜烟花#; “Many Places Announce That They Won’t Organize New Year’s Activities” #多地发布通知称不组织跨年夜活动#).

◼︎ Death of Henan Junior High School Student Sparks Protests | The death of a young boy at the Yuhuayuan school (育华园学校) in Ningling, Henan, has triggered major discussions these days. Despite the school asserting it was a suicide, the boy’s body revealed numerous bruises and injuries, leading his family to suspect bullying and inflicted violence. After officials dismissed any foul play on December 27th, the boy’s family and supporters rallied around the school, clashing with local police and even entering the premises to demand justice. Since then, some roads near the school have reportedly been blocked off and some of the main hashtag pages surrounding this case have been taken offline. (“Henan’s Ningling Reports Student Fell to His Death” #河南宁陵通报一学生高空坠亡#, taken offline; “Henan Ningling County Denies Student Who Fell to Death Was Bullied before He Died” #河南宁陵县否认坠亡学生生前遭霸凌#, 6+ million views).

◼︎ New Rules for Online Games | China’s regulatory authority has unveiled new draft rules for online video gaming, aiming to foster a “healthier development” of the industry with a focus on safeguarding minors and consumers. These regulations propose prohibiting rewards for daily logins and limiting certain revenue-generating activities such as player duels and significant transactions involving virtual items. On social media, thousands of people commented on the proposed rules, and although many people supported the measures, others believe that online gaming shouldn’t face such stringent restrictions. Public comments on these regulations are welcomed until January 22, 2024. (Weibo hashtag “Draft Regulation for Online Games” #网络游戏管理办法草案#, 130 million views).

◼︎ Mao Zedong 130 Years | This week, Chinese state media outlets marked the 130th anniversary of Mao Zedong’s birth across various social media platforms, urging netizens to “commemorate the great leader.” While some highlighted Mao’s contributions to the empowerment of women in China, others lauded his poetry and writings. Numerous netizens extended birthday wishes to “Grandfather Mao.” Born on December 26, 1893, Mao Zedong passed away in 1976. Unsurprisingly, critical perspectives on the Chairman were notably absent. (Weibo hashtag “Chairman Mao’s 130th Birthday” #毛主席诞辰130周年#, 420 million views).

◼︎ Fiancee Accused of Rape after Engagement | Recently, a significant legal case has garnered attention on Chinese social media platforms. In May 2023, a woman accused her former fiancée of raping her on the night following their engagement party. The man was recently given a three-year prison sentence as part of the preliminary judgment, but details surrounding the case have sparked debates – many netizens suggest that the woman’s motives might have been financially driven. Allegedly, the couple had an agreement stating that before marriage, the man’s family would cover half the dowry and add the woman’s name to his property rights. Speculations arose that the woman pursued legal action upon realizing she wouldn’t secure the property rights she desired. This narrative has fueled rumors, suggesting the incident stemmed more from a marital dispute than a genuine rape allegation. Chinese media outlets have now countered and refuted such claims. (“Man Accused of Rape after Engagement Gets 3 Year Sentence” #男子订婚后被告强奸一审被判3年#, 510 million views).

◼︎ Death of Lee Sun-Kyun | The death of South Korean actor Lee Sun-kyun went top trending on Weibo this week, garnering over 590 million views within just one day. Lee was mostly known for his standout role in the award-winning movie Parasite. He was reportedly found dead in his car on Wednesday, with indications pointing towards suicide amidst an ongoing probe into alleged drug involvement. Lee’s death follows a series of high-profile celebrity suicides in South Korea. On Weibo, countless fans fondly remembered Lee while also voicing disapproval towards those people and media outlets who accused him of facts that were not yet proven. His funeral took place on Friday in Seoul. (Weibo hashtag “Lee Sun-kyun Passed Away” #李善均去世#, 920 million views).

◼︎ Dr. Tao Yong Controversy | Dr. Tao Yong, an ophthalmologist from Beijing with over 2 million followers on Weibo, stirred discussions online when he had his daughter wash dishes on her 12th birthday. He gained prominence in China in 2020 after surviving an attack by a patient wielding a knife. This week, he faced criticism for revealing that he made his daughter wash dishes following her birthday meal. Was he trying to convey certain expectations for his daughter? Why is there an emphasis on girls learning household chores like washing dishes? The seemingly innocuous post sparked significant controversy, with accusations of sexism directed at Tao. He promptly removed the post and clarified that he merely wanted his daughter to embrace more household responsibilities, emphasizing that his remarks were meant light-hearted. Tao learnt an important lesson in this social media age: even a lighthearted or innocent statement can unleash a whirlwind of intense reactions. (Weibo hashtag “Tao Yong Responds to Recent Online Controversy” #陶勇回应近期网络风波#, 190 million views).

 

Stay tuned for our more elaborate Weibo Watch newsletters in the New Year! Want to look back at our previous 20 issues? You can find them here.

 
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Manya is the founder and editor-in-chief of What's on Weibo, offering independent analysis of social trends, online media, and digital culture in China for over a decade. Subscribe to gain access to content, including the Weibo Watch newsletter, which provides deeper insights into the China trends that matter. More about Manya at manyakoetse.com or follow on X.

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“Black Myth: Wukong”: From Gaming Screens to the CMG Spring Festival Gala?

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FROM THE WEIBO WATCH PREMIUM NEWSLETTER

Is Chinese game sensation ‘Black Myth Wukong’ making a jump from gaming screens to the CMG Spring Festival Gala? There’s already some online excitement over a potential performance at the biggest liveshow of the year.

The countdown to the most-watched show of the year has begun. On January 29, the Year of the Snake will be celebrated across China, and as always, the CMG Spring Festival Gala, broadcast on CCTV1, will air on the night leading up to midnight on January 28.

Rehearsals for the show began last week, sparking rumors and discussions about the must-watch performances this year. Soon, the hashtag “Black Myth: Wukong – From New Year’s Gala to Spring Festival Gala” (#黑神话悟空从跨晚到春晚#) became a topic of discussion on Weibo, following rumors that the Gala will feature a performance based on the hugely popular game Black Myth: Wukong.

Three weeks ago, a 16-minute-long Black Myth: Wukong performance already was a major highlight of Bilibili’s 2024 New Year’s Gala (B站跨年晚会). The show featured stunning visuals from the game, anime-inspired elements, special effects, spectacular stage design, and live song-and-dance performances. It was such a hit that many viewers said it brought them to tears. You can watch that show on YouTube here.

While it’s unlikely that the entire 16-minute performance will be included in the Spring Festival Gala (it’s a long 4-hour show but maintains a very fast pace), it seems highly possible that a highlight segment of the performance could make its way to the show.

Recently, Black Myth: Wukong was crowned 2024’s Game of the Year at the Steam Awards. The game is nothing short of a sensation. Officially released on August 20, 2024, it topped the international gaming platform Steam’s “Most Played” list within hours of its launch. Developed by Game Science, a studio founded by former Tencent employees, Black Myth: Wukong draws inspiration from the classic Chinese novel Journey to the West. This legendary tale of heroes and demons follows the supernatural monkey Sun Wukong as he accompanies the Tang Dynasty monk Xuanzang on a pilgrimage to India to retrieve Buddhist scriptures. The game, however, focuses on Sun Wukong’s story after this iconic journey.

The success of Black Myth: Wukong cannot be overstated—I’ve also not seen a Chinese video game be this hugely popular on social media over the past decade. Beyond being a blockbuster game it is now widely regarded as an impactful Chinese pop cultural export that showcases Chinese culture, history, and traditions. Its massive success has made anything associated with it go viral—for example, a merchandise collaboration with Luckin Coffee sold out instantly.

If Black Myth: Wukong does indeed become part of the Spring Festival Gala, it will likely be one of the most talked-about and celebrated segments of the show. If it does not come on, which we would be a shame, we can still see a Black Myth performance at the pre-recorded Fujian Spring Festival Gala, which will air on January 29.

Lastly, if you’re not into video games and not that interested in watching the show, I still highly recommend that you check out the game’s music. You can find it on Spotify (link to album). It will also give you a sense of the unique beauty of Black Myth: Wukong that you might appreciate—I certainly do.

By Manya Koetse

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“Dear Li Hua”: The TikTok/Xiaohongshu Honeymoon Explained

As American ‘TikTok Refugees’ flock to China’s Xiaohongshu (Rednote), their encounter with ‘Li Hua’ strikes a chord in divided times.

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China’s Xiaohongshu (Rednote) has seen an unprecedented influx of foreign “TikTok refugees” over the past week, giving rise to endless jokes. But behind this unexpected online migration lie some deeper themes—geopolitical tensions, a desire for cultural exchange, and the unexpected role of the fictional character Li Hua in bridging the divide.

Imagine you are Li Hua (李华), a Chinese senior high school student. You have a foreign friend, far away, in America. His name is John, and he has asked you for some insight into Chinese Spring Festival, for an upcoming essay has to write for the school newspaper. You need to write a reply to John, in which you explain more about the history of China’s New Year festival and the traditions surrounding its celebrations.

This is the kind of writing assignment many Chinese students have once encountered during their English writing exams in school during the Gaokao (高考), China’s National College Entrance Exams. The figure of ‘Li Hua’ has popped up on and off during these exams since at least 1995, when Li invited foreign friend ‘Peter’ to a picnic at Renmin Park.

Over the years, Li Hua has become somewhat of a cultural icon. A few months ago, Shangguan News (上观新闻) humorously speculated about his age, estimating that, since one exam mentioned his birth year as 1977, he should now be 47 years old—still a high school student, still helping foreign friends, and still introducing them to life in China.

Li Hua: the connector, the helper, the icon.

This week, however, Li Hua unexpectedly became a trending topic on social media—in a week that was already full of surprises.

With a TikTok ban looming in the US (delayed after briefly taking effect on Sunday), millions of American TikTok users began migrating to other platforms this month. The most notable one was the Chinese social media app Xiaohongshu (now also known as Rednote), which saw a massive influx of so-called “TikTok refugees” (Tiktok难民). The surge propelled Xiaohongshu to the #1 spot in app stores across the US and beyond.

This influx of some three million foreigners marked an unprecedented moment for a domestic Chinese app, and Xiaohongshu’s sudden international popularity has brought both challenges and beautiful moments. Beyond the geopolitical tension between the US and China, Chinese and American internet users spontaneously found common ground, creating unique connections and finding new friends.

While the TikTok/Xiaohongshu “honeymoon” may seem like just a humorous trend, it also reflects deeper, more complex themes.

 
✳️ National Security Threat or Anti-Chinese Witchhunt?
 

At its core, the “TikTok refugee” trend has sprung from geopolitical tensions, rivalry, and mutual distrust between the US and China.

TikTok is a wildly popular AI-powered short video app by Chinese company ByteDance, which also runs Douyin, the Chinese counterpart of the international TikTok app. TikTok has over 170 million users in the US alone.

A potential TikTok ban was first proposed in 2020, amid escalating US-China tensions. President Trump initiated the move, citing security and data concerns. In 2024, the debate resurfaced in global headlines when President Biden signed the “Protecting Americans from Foreign Adversary Controlled Applications Act,” giving ByteDance nine months to divest TikTok or face a US ban.

TikTok, however, has continuously insisted it is apolitical, does not accept political promotion, and has no political agenda. Its Singaporean CEO Shou Zi Chew maintains that ByteDance is a private business and “not an agent of China or any other country.”

🇺🇸 From Washington’s perspective, TikTok is viewed as a national and personal security threat. Officials fear the app could be used to spread propaganda or misinformation on behalf of the Chinese Communist Party.

🇨🇳 Beijing, meanwhile, criticizes the ban as an act of “bullying,” accusing the US of protectionism and attempting to undermine China’s most successful internet companies. They argue that the ban reflects America’s inability to compete with the success of Chinese digital products, labeling the scrutiny around TikTok as a “witch hunt.”

Political cartoon about the American “witchhunt” against TikTok, shared on Weibo in 2023, also published on Twitter by Lianhe Zaobao.

“This will eventually backfire on the US itself,” China’s Foreign Ministry spokesperson Wang Wenbin predicted in 2024.

Wang turned out to be quite right, in a way.

When it became clear in mid-January that the ban was likely to become a reality, American TikTok users grew increasingly frustrated and angry with their government. For many of these TikTok creators, the platform is not just a form of entertainment—it has become an essential part of their income. Some directly monetize their content through TikTok, while others use it to promote services or products, targeting audiences that other platforms like Facebook, Instagram, or X can no longer reach as effectively.

Initially, the mass migration of American users to Xiaohongshu was a symbolic protest against US policies. Users advocated for the right to choose their preferred social media, and voiced their frustration at how their favorite app had become a pawn in US-China geopolitical tensions. Rejecting the narrative that “data must be protected from the Chinese,” many pointed out that privacy concerns were equally valid for US-based platforms. As an act of playful political defiance, these users downloaded Xiaohongshu to demonstrate they didn’t fear the government’s warnings about Chinese data collection.

(If they had the option, by the way, they would have installed Douyin—the actual Chinese version of TikTok—but it is only available in Chinese app stores, whereas Xiaohongshu is accessible in international stores, so it was picked as ‘China’s version of TikTok.’)

Xiaohongshu is actually not the same as TikTok at all. Founded in 2013, Xiaohongshu (literal translation: Little Red Book) is a popular app with over 300 million users that combines lifestyle, travel, fashion, and cosmetics with e-commerce, user-generated content, and product reviews. Like TikTok, it offers personalized content recommendations and scrolling videos, but is otherwise different in types of engagement and being more text-based.

As a Chinese app primarily designed for a domestic audience, the sudden wave of foreign users caused significant disruption. Xiaohongshu must adhere to the guidelines of China’s Cyberspace Administration, which requires tight control over information flows. The unexpected influx of foreign users undoubtedly created challenges for the company, not only prompting them to implement translation tools but also recruiting English-speaking content moderators to manage the new streams of content. Foreigners addressing sensitive political issues soon found their accounts banned.

Of course, there is undeniable irony in Americans protesting government control by flocking to a Chinese app functioning within an internet system that is highly controlled by the government—a move that sparked quite some debate and criticism as well.

 
✳️ The Sino-American ‘Dear Li Hua’ Moment
 

While the initial hype around Xiaohongshu among TikTok users was political, the trend quickly shifted into a moment of cultural exchange. As American creators introduced themselves on the platform, Chinese users gave them a warm welcome, eager to practice their English and teach these foreign newcomers how to navigate the app.

Soon, discussions about language, culture, and societal differences between China and the US began to flourish. Before long, “TikTok refugees” and “Xiaohongshu natives” were collaborating on homework assignments, swapping recipes, and bonding through humor.

For instance, Chinese users jokingly asked the “TikTok refugees” to pay a “cat tax” for seeking refuge on their platform, which American users happily fulfilled by posting adorable cat photos. American users, in turn, joked about becoming best friends with their “Chinese spies,” playfully mocking their own government’s fears about Chinese data collection.

The newfound camaraderie sparked creativity, as users began generating humorous images celebrating the bond between American and Chinese netizens—like Ronald McDonald cooking with the Monkey King or the Terra Cotta Soldier embracing the Statue of Liberty. Later, some images even depicted the pair welcoming their first “baby.”

🇺🇸 At the same time, it became clear just how little Americans and Chinese truly know about each other. Many American users expressed surprise at the China they discovered through Xiaohongshu, which contrasted sharply with negative portrayals they’ve seen in the media. While some popular US narratives often paint Chinese citizens as “brainwashed” by their government, many TikTok users began to reflect on how their own perspectives had been shaped—or even “manipulated”—by their media and government.

🇨🇳 For Chinese users, the sudden interaction underscored their digital isolation. Over the past 15 years, China has developed its own tightly regulated digital ecosystem, with Western platforms like Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and YouTube inaccessible in the mainland. While this system offers political and economic advantages, it has left many young Chinese people culturally hungry for direct interaction with foreigners—especially after years of reduced exchange caused by the pandemic, trade tensions, and bilateral estrangement. (Today, only some 1,100 American students are reportedly studying in China.)

The enthusiasm and eagerness displayed by American and Chinese Xiaohongshu users this week actually underscores the vacuum in cultural exchange between the two nations.

As a result of the Xiaohongshu migration, language-learning platform Duolingo reported a 216% rise in new US users learning Mandarin—a clear sign of growing interest in bridging the US-China divide.

Mourning the lack of intercultural communication and celebrating this unexpected moment of connection, Xiaohongshu users began jokingly asking Americans if they had ever received their “Li Hua letters.”

What started as some lighthearted remarks evolved into something much bigger as Chinese users dug up their old Gaokao exam papers and shared the letters they had written to their imaginary foreign friends years ago. These letters, often carefully stored in drawers or organizers, were posted with captions like, “Why didn’t you reply?” suggesting that Chinese students had been trying to reach out for years.

Example letters on Xiaohongshu: ‘Li Hua’ writing to foreign friends.

The story of ‘Li Hua’ and the replies he never received struck a chord with American Tiktok users. One user, Debrah.71, commented:
It was the opposite for us in the USA. When I was in grade school, we did the same thing—we had foreign pen pals. But they did respond to our letters.”

Then, something extraordinary happened: Americans started replying to Li Hua.

One user, Douglas (@neonhotel), posted a heartfelt video of him writing a letter to Li Hua:

📝”Dear Li Hua, I’m sorry I didn’t get your letters. I understand you’ve been writing me for a long time, but now I’m here to reply. Hello, from your American friend. I hope you’re well. Life here is pretty normal—we go to work, hit the gym, eat dinner, watch TV. What about you? Please write back. I’m sorry I didn’t reply before, but I’m here now. Your friend, Douglas.”

Another user, Tess (@TessSaidThat), wrote:

📝”Dear Li Hua, I hope this letter finds you well. I’m so sorry my response is so late. My government never delivered your letters. Instead, they told me you didn’t want to be my friend. Now I know the truth, and I can’t wait to visit. Which city should I visit first? With love, Tess.”

Examples of Dear Li Hua letters.

Other replies echoed similar sentiments:

📝”Dear Li Hua, I’m sorry the world kept us apart.”

📝”I know we don’t speak the same language, but I understand you clearly. Your warmth and genuine kindness transcend every barrier.”

📝”Did you achieve your dreams? Are you still practicing English? We’re older now, but wherever we are, happiness is what matters most.”

These exchanges left hundreds of users—both Chinese and American, young and old, male and female—teary-eyed. In a way, it’s the emotional weight of the distance—represented by millions of unanswered letters—that resonated deeply with both “TikTok refugees” and “Xiaohongshu natives.”

Emotional responses to the Li Hua letters.

The letters seemed to symbolize the gap that has long separated Chinese and American people, and the replies highlighted the unusual circumstances that brought these two online communities together. This moment of genuine cultural exchange made many realize how anti-Chinese, anti-American sentiments have dominated narratives for years, fostering misunderstandings.

Xiaohongshu commenter.

On the Chinese side, many people expressed how emotional it was to see Li Hua’s letters finally receiving replies. Writing these letters had been a collective experience for generations of Chinese students, creating messages to imaginary foreign friends they never expected to meet.

Receiving a reply wasn’t just about connection; it was about being truly seen at a time when Chinese people often feel underrepresented or mischaracterized in global contexts. Some users even called the replies to the Li Hua letters a “historical moment.”

 
✳️ Unity in a Time of Digital Divide
 

Alongside its political and cultural dimensions, the TikTok/Xiaohongshu “honeymoon” also reveals much about China and its digital environment. The fact that TikTok, a product of a Chinese company, has had such a profound impact on the American online landscape—and that American users are now flocking to another Chinese app—showcases the strength of Chinese digital products and the growing “de-westernization” of social media.

Of course, in Chinese official media discourse, this aspect of the story has been positively highlighted. Chinese state media portrays the migration of US TikTok users to Xiaohongshu as a victory for China: not only does it emphasize China’s role as a digital superpower and supposed geopolitical “connector” amidst US-China tensions, but it also serves as a way of mocking US authorities for the “witch hunt” against TikTok, suggesting that their actions have ultimately backfired—a win-win for China.

The Chinese Communist Party’s Publicity Department even made a tongue-in-cheek remark about Xiaohongshu’s sudden popularity among foreign users. The Weibo account of the propaganda app Study Xi, Strong Country, dedicated to promote Party history and Xi Jinping’s work, playfully suggested that if Americans are using a Chinese social media app today, they might be studying Xi Jinping Thought tomorrow, writing: “We warmly invite all friends, foreign and Chinese, new and old, to download the ‘Big Red Book’ app so we can study and make progress together!”

Perhaps the most positive takeaway from the TikTok/Xiaohongshu trend—regardless of how many American users remain on the app now that the TikTok ban has been delayed—is that it demonstrates the power of digital platforms to create new, transnational communities. It’s unfortunate that censorship, a TikTok ban, and the fragmentation of global social media triggered this moment, but it has opened a rare opportunity to build bridges across countries and platforms.

The “Dear Li Hua” letters are not just personal exchanges; they are part of a larger movement where digital tools are reshaping how people form relationships and challenge preconceived notions of others outside geopolitical contexts. Most importantly, it has shown Chinese and American social media users how confined they’ve been to their own bubbles, isolated on their own islands. An AI-powered social media app in the digital era became the unexpected medium for them to share kind words, have a laugh, exchange letters, and see each other for what they truly are: just humans.

As millions of Americans flock back to TikTok today, things will not be the same as before. They now know they have a friend in China called Li Hua.

By Manya Koetse

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